Thoughts from Jeannie (Montreal)
Well, here we are in lovely Montreal. This afternoon we did a CBC Radio Canada interview and then afterwards we went over to Dawson College to meet with Tony Proudfoot. For those of you who have not heard of Tony Proudfoot (you must not be a football fan!) he played for the Montreal Alouettes for 12 years. Tony was diagnosed with the bulbar version of ALS this past May. I wish I could tell you that I pulled off a great interview with him, but I didn’t. I could barely speak and I realized at that moment how much this trip and meeting ALS patients is affecting me on an emotional level. While listening to Tony talk about how his life has recently changed and how he will most likely lose his voice by spring (he also lectures and does commentary for the CFL) I felt a bit helpless, like there was nothing I could do to help anyone with this disease. I really do want to help and right now I feel like this is not doing a bit of good for the people currently living with ALS. My hope is that one day we will find a cure for this terrible disease and I know our efforts to raise awareness and money will definitely help out. But that is for the future and what can we do for the present?
Listening to everyone’s story and knowing their fate is almost more than I can take at times. It breaks my heart to look into the eyes of someone who has a terminal disease that will take their life in just a few short years, knowing there is currently no hope for a cure and no medication to help them out. The only thing that makes it bearable is being around them each day. Their constant positive outlook on life and their ability to live each day to the fullest is truly an inspiration to each of us. If there is one thing I have learned from this trip, it is that we should all strive to live our lives that way. One day at a time, with a positive outlook-reminding ourselves not to sweet the small stuff and keeping an eye on the things that really matter.
BTW - on Friday we will be at McGill University from 11:00-3:00 if you would like to come out and see us!
-jeannie